Writing a letter to my future husband

Love this and I have been doing it for awhile now Macayla Bycroft Absolutely beautiful! I have been writing letters to my future husband this past year and my mom bought me this cute box with a heart on the lid to remind me to keep my heart for the man the letters are for inside. Thanks for the tips!

Writing a letter to my future husband

We kissed on the couch while watching a movie. He asked if I wanted to go further and I froze at the question. Should I be cool and roll with it? Should I say no?

Questions raced through my mind and in a panic, I excused myself to the bathroom before I could answer. I encountered a similar situation early on in college. When I got home, I knew exactly what to do though.

I went to my room, opened my closet door, and searched for that secret little box I kept tucked in the back shelf for days like these. I tore out a piece of notebook paper and began writing another letter to him. It started just like all the others: Dear Future Husband… You see, when I was just 12 years old, I promised to wait for my future husband.

writing a letter to my future husband

And that sounds like a pretty easy gig at 12 before puberty and cute boys really hit the scene. But throw in hormones, driving, dating, then college parties and cute boys who turn into hot men and WOO girl! But when I made that promise, I wrote a letter to my future husband.

Well, actually, I just filled in the blanks on the template that the purity conference people gave us middle schoolers but it sparked something in my tiny heart and over the years, I kept writing to my future husband before I ever saw his face or knew his name.

Writing to my future husband in those seasons somehow lightened the burden. It made the waiting seem more doable and the hope I had been holding out for more tangible. And on September 3,on the morning of our wedding, my groom opened a box of letters that had been addressed to him before he ever knew my name.

I get that we make mistakes. I get that we struggle and wrestle with shame and impatience and all sorts of other ugly. And maybe you need a little real life, true story to remind your heart to believe that all things possible AND all things are redeemable.

So I pray this final letter to my future husband letter encourages you to write to yours, to love yourself enough to forgive yourself, and to love God enough to let Him plant within you His spirit of endurance and mercy: When I was 13, my dad gave me a purity ring.

Engraved inside of the band are the words: In that moment, I promised to wait for my future husband and even signed a purity pact without hesitation although I had no idea just how difficult that road could be. I dreamed of one day giving all those letters to the man I married so that he would see how truly important he was long before I ever met him.

Writing Letters to Your Future Husband

Today, you are that man. Looking back, every single one of those steps that brought us here were so beyond worth it. So as I walk down that aisle toward you today, I want you to know that I believe that walk is so much more than a ceremonial motion or formality. Each step represents the steps that God has walked with me through to bring me to this moment as I take this big step in becoming your wife.

Today we give Him everything. Today, we give each other everything.You are my husband and I want to give you everything I can. You know how much I value writing and letters and to be able to just write this to you now is a blessing.

Thank you for reading my heart.

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Jul 12,  · I have a journal that I write to my future (unknown ;) husband. The only rule is I can't write in it while liking or thinking of another guy.

One of my mentors did this, and gave it to her husband on their wedding night along with her purity ashio-midori.com: Writing for Christ ~ The Audience of One. I have been writing letter to my future husband in my journal. I think I met him and I thank God. I wait and continue to write until he finds me by asking me to be his best friend, fiance and wife.

A Letter To My Future Husband. In Love by Lauren Sergesketter February 3, 18 Comments. Dear Future Husband, I relieved to know I’m not the only one who thinks about my future husband even though I haven’t met him yet.

thank you and God bless you. January 26, Reply. letter to future husband | ashio-midori.com August 4, . On October 1st, , I sat down on my bedroom floor, grabbed a piece of plain paper, and penned my very first letter to my future husband.

Since that day, I’ve written dozens of letters to . I have been writing letters to my future husband this past year and my mom bought me this cute box with a heart on the lid to remind me to keep my heart for the man the letters are for inside.

Thanks for the tips! 🙂.

writing a letter to my future husband
Writing for Christ ~ The Audience of One: A Letter to My Future Husband.